"I love what I do."
How often do you hear people say these words? Maybe if you
spend a lot of time with motivational speakers, it’s commonplace. But no matter
how emotionally invested you are in your work, it’s easy to feel like something
is missing. After all, isn't putting "love" and "work" in
the same sentence akin to using "pleasure" and "toil” in the
same breath? Chances are though, if you like what you do, on a good day you
might actually feel some love for it. But is that passion for work life the key
to happiness?
“Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a
day in your life.”
Surely this maxim will find it's way into many a graduate's
ear this spring. But can it be that are we setting them up for disappointment
by expecting work to feel like… not-work? As Chrissy Scivicque in Forbes
challenges, “It’s dangerous to suggest that work can be anything other than
work."
"That's why they call it work."
It's true that even those who have reached unimaginable
success at their would-be dream job would have to admit that, on some level,
work is still work. But perhaps after redefining our expectations of what work
should be, we can actually appreciate the happiness within. If you have ever
had a day where you wanted to swap positions with a happy-go-lucky sanitation
worker, maybe it’s the happy-go-lucky part you need to focus on.
"Labor of love."
Perhaps the answer lies somewhere in-between attitude and
aptitude. Once you know how much happiness you can reasonably expect from any
work, you see your own work in a different light. Start with the notion that
some component of work will always be, if not tedious, at least routine. A
farmer can still love to farm, even if he doesn't enjoy being at the mercy of
the elements. A doctor can love to heal the sick, but they also have to spend a
good portion of the day filling out paperwork. Remember that difficulty and
unpleasantness are a component of any job worth being passionate about. Being
in a position of authority can make these extremes even more marked.
So, is having a passion for what you do the key to
happiness? The answer lies not in blindly pursuing something you think might
make you happy; it's in deciding to approach everything you do, in and out of
the office, with passion.